{"id":44,"date":"2011-01-04T20:56:50","date_gmt":"2011-01-04T20:56:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/darthjedi.logiodice.com\/2011\/01\/04\/TheyTellMeThatHisStoryWasViolent.aspx"},"modified":"2011-01-04T20:56:50","modified_gmt":"2011-01-04T20:56:50","slug":"they-tell-me-that-his-story-was-violent","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/darthjedi.logiodice.com\/?p=44","title":{"rendered":"They tell me that his story was violent\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>So a public school teacher told me this afternoon that in thirteen years of teaching, she had never had a child illustrate a picture book the way my son had, so it had upset her, and she wouldn\u2019t tolerate it.&#160; I let her know that in thirteen years, she has never had a child as amazing as my son, end of story.<\/p>\n<p>Here is a little more detail:<\/p>\n<p>The teacher drew pictures of Santa, and he was supposed to write the story behind it.&#160; <\/p>\n<p>He started off with Santa not wanting to get up, so a bear hit him over the head with a bell (instead of ringing the bell while standing over him).&#160; Then they tried to steal his pants (instead of helping him get his pants on).&#160; Next, the reindeer chased Santa, and a dog tried to eat the reindeer, and Santa crashed his sled, got stuck in a chimney and went to jail for trespassing.<\/p>\n<p>All very appropriate to the pictures (if you were to see them) &#8211; but none of them fitting the &quot;perfect sheep like mold&quot; setup by public schools.&#160; The teacher tried to tell me that it was violent, and tried to use the fact that she had never had a child in thirteen years, teaching 3 sets of students each year, ever write a story like that, and she was deeply disturbed.&#160; <\/p>\n<p>Her version of &quot;creative&quot; was when one child said that Santa had to say &quot;Ho Ho Ho&quot; three times before he did anything.&#160; I&#8217;m thinking that OCD is not creative, it&#8217;s a disease &#8211; and was left pondering what a sad existence she must have to think that &quot;Ho Ho Ho&quot; is creative, and think my son&#8217;s creativity &quot;disturbing&quot;.&#160; I made sure to point out what a tragedy it was that she never had a child as creative as my son.&#160; <\/p>\n<p>I then proceeded to ask her if she lived in the same world that I live in, if she had ever watched the loony toons, and finished my diatribe by letting her know, that without any question, the one thing I will not let public school do to any of my children is to file them into round pegs and strip them of their creativity and their identity.<\/p>\n<p>Other than that though; the school system as a whole is doing very well to help him work through his anxiety, hyperactivity, and boredom regarding the pace of going to public school.&#160; They have definitely been willing to work with him at his own pace on some of the issues that he does need to work on, so I have to give them the level of appreciation that is due.&#160; <\/p>\n<p>But dampening his creativity, and molding his identity into what they think a &quot;good little child&quot; should be, is something that I will never let happen!&#160; 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